"No one is like you, O LORD; you are great, and your name is mighty in power. Who should not revere you, O King of the nations? This is your due. Among all the wise men of the nations and in all their kingdoms, there is no one like you." - Jeremiah 10:6-7
Friday, November 19th
94) Appointment Scheduling- We had been referred to a pediatric allergist for our daughter and finally have all the information we needed in order to schedule the appointment. I was warned by her doctor that it would likely take about two months for us to get in to see the allergist, and with our upcoming holiday schedule, I was guessing that meant we wouldn't be able to see the allergist until sometime in January. So when I called this morning to set up the appointment, I was prepared for just that. I was pleasantly surprised and actually quite shocked when the woman in scheduling told me they had an opening available in just four days. She said there wouldn't be another available appointment- that we could make- until 2011, so it truly was a blessing. After this appointment, we may not have answers to whether these sensitivities are just that or true, lifelong allergies, but we will be on our way. There is something reassuring in the fact that we are on the path to knowing, whatever the outcome.
95) A Mother's guidance- Being a mother is quite the learning experience and it can be one that is filled with questions and doubts. It seems like some of my biggest doubts are centered around food these days. Of course, our daughter has several food sensitivities, but for the past several days she has been giving me a terrible time with foods she has previously loved and with which she has not shown any signs of problems. Up until today I have rather tentatively approached the situation as an assertion of her will over mine and a testing of my authority, but I do admit that in the back of my mind I have been keeping track of everything just in case it was related to some food sensitivity/allergy. Today, our daughter exerted herself more strongly. Now my thoughts are I need to either firmly set the expectations for her or she is in serious pain from some food. I went with my gut- I suppose- and guessed she was being defiant, but I didn't trust myself. So after I put her in her crib without eating half her lunch, I called my Mom. There is nothing better than guidance from the woman who helped you through your own toddler years. My mother helped four of us survive the toddler tantrums and now she is helping me survive and thrive through my toddler's toddler years. She is a source of strength, encouragement and guidance, and I am grateful for her support and confidence in both Drew and I as parents.
Saturday, November 20th
96) Kitchen Shears- Some of you may have heard me say this before, but I will say it again, I love my kitchen shears. In fact, I own three pair and use all three regularly. For a girl who has never been fond of handling raw meat, they make food preparation- particularly the preparation of meats- so much easier and manageable. I find I enjoy cooking more because I find the preparations less of a chore, so for me (and probably Drew ;) ), kitchen shears are a blessing.
Sunday, November 21st
97) Access to the Bible- It can be easy to take this for granted, but really, how many Bibles do you own or can you easily gain access to? If we just look at what Drew and I own, the number is still in the double digits. If I consider all the Bibles we have access to via public libraries, church libraries, etc., the number becomes incredible. What a blessing! There are so many places in this world where people do not have access to the Bible, where the Bible may not even be translated into their language. I am grateful for the Bible and all it contains and I am so thankful that I have the ability to turn to God's Word daily.
98) Two sets of hands this morning- This morning something did not seem quite right with our daughter, but as it seemed as though she had been awake exceptionally early, we didn't think too much beyond sleepiness and fussiness from being awake in her crib too long. Just as I was getting ready to put on our coats and head out to the car with her for church, she threw up all over both her and myself. I had a moment's notice that something was happening as I could feel things rumbling in her belly. Still it was shocking and there I was standing in heels and a dress with a child distraught, who just wanted her Mommy's hugs. I am certain that if I had been home alone, I would have found a way to have managed the situation, but I am grateful that Drew was here. He stepped in, helped clean up our daughter while I cleaned up myself, and helped in various other ways while I calmed and comforted our daughter further. Need would have given me the ability to handle the situation on my own, but the second pair of hands was a blessing.
Monday, November 22nd
99) Personal- Sometimes what we need can seem terrible, aggravating and annoying, but after an unexplainable absence a greater appreciation for the item or event can be achieved. The circumstances may not be any easier, but the blessing has been uncovered.
100) Dedication- I made it to blessing number 100. When I first began this journey, I wondered how far I would go. My first goal was to continue for thirty days and then I hoped to make it to blessing number 100. I knew that would be a major accomplishment for me as I have never been a very good pen pal nor have I ever been one to regularly or faithfully journal. I will often begin, recognizing the benefits, but the endeavor has always quickly faded. So as I began this counting project, I seriously wondered if I could truly dedicate myself to daily sitting down to count and journal about my blessings. I am thankful that I have remained faithful to this pursuit and dedicated myself to seeing the blessings around me- for 52 days, 100 blessings..... and counting....
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
Thursday, November 18, 2010
Together Again- Eighty-One through Ninety-Three
" Do everything without grumbling or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, “children of God without fault in a warped and crooked generation.” Then you will shine among them like stars in the sky as you hold firmly to the word of life." Philippians 2: 15-16a
Friday, November 12th
81) New Beginnings- This blessing is true on so many levels, but today I am looking at it through the eyes of an Army wife. Some people think about the frequent moves related to a military life and see that as a big negative, and honestly, there are moments when I give in to that mindset. Most of the time though, I enjoy the opportunities and new beginnings that come with the moves. Since Drew commissioned just shy of two years ago, I have lived in four different locations (five if you include the place we lived at the time of his commissioning). That fact is a bit extreme even for the Army but occurred because of our circumstances and the fact that Drew had additional, long-term training for his eventual career path with the Army. Living in five locations has allowed me to see some beautiful land and sights and meet some amazing people. We have worshipped with several wonderful church families as well. As we settle in and really begin another chapter of our life in the military, I am enjoying the new scenery and sights, the new culture and foods, the new area to explore and most importantly, the new relationships we are building.
Saturday, November 13th
82) "Mamen" - For the last month or two, Drew and I have been regularly praying with our daughter before every meal and having her repeat "Amen" at the end to let her know the prayer was finished. While the deeper concept hasn't set in, she does know to fold her hands and generally knows she should remain quiet until we say Amen. Just last week, she found a doll that says the common child's evening prayer when you press on it's belly. Our daughter has become attached to this dollie and will often repeat the word Amen after the dollie- except she says "Mamen." So this morning when I set her bowl of oatmeal in front of her, it was so wonderful to see all of the ideas and practice coming together as she immediately folded her hands and said "Mamen." We still have work, but what a start!
83) Little grins- Drew has had a training schedule for the past few weeks which has meant that our daughter has not seen him. Finally after two weeks, they have been reunited and what a wonderful day it was! I have thoroughly enjoyed watching all of her interactions with him. She has this endearing way of tilting her head to the side and shyly grinning at Drew. The look could melt ice in an instant. It is so wonderful to see how strong the bond is between her and Drew despite the period of time they have been separated. I couldn't ask for much more. I am so grateful.
Sunday, November 14th
84) Drew's involvement- After two weeks where our daughter was solely in my care, I could see a difference in her. It was nothing too extreme. She was still a good girl, but there were minor changes. Today during church service, though, I could see the effect that Drew's presence had on her. It was a reminder to me of how thankful I am that Drew desires to be present and involved in her life. I have always felt so strongly about the importance of the presence of both the father and mother, when circumstances allow, but I also know that some people view involvement in difference lights. I am grateful that Drew takes the role he does, especially given the work schedule he has had to maintain thus far during our daughter's lifetime.
85) Each moment and day with Drew- Time is precious. This lesson was one that Drew and I learned early in our relationship, but it is an important one to remember. Military life has made this fact only more clear to me. It is not because of the every day tasks he performs or the relief from childcare he can provide me; Drew brightens my day. He understands me and helps keep me grounded in a way that almost no one else here on earth can do. I can live a day without him, and often have to do so, but I prefer the days when he is near. Days when he is away remind me just how precious and special each moment with him is. Tomorrow is not guaranteed; in fact, the next hour, even the next minute, is not guaranteed, so do not take it for granted.
Monday, November 15th
86) Confirmation- When our daughter started showing additional food sensitivities/allergies, my biggest worry/concern was that despite what seemed to be a healthy diet she might be eating poorly or more specifically, not eating enough of certain food groups or getting enough of certain vitamins/minerals, etc. I was, therefore, very grateful that we had an opportunity to sit down with a pediatric dietitian to discuss her current diet and go over the best diet for a child her age. What was even more unexpected and exciting was the amazing confirmation we received from the dietitian. She was so pleased with the manner with which we had approached our daughter's sensitivities and the variety of foods in each food group that we were still offering her. She really offered us great encouragement concerning how we were addressing any issues that arose and how we addressed the limitations we face given the diet restrictions. What a wonderful blessing as diet is such an important issue for any child and parent, especially at this young age when doctors are constantly discussing how a child's diet can aid or hinder them in other developmental areas.
87) Brown Dressy Cardigan- Okay, so this kind of seems silly and insignificant, but it really made my morning. When I thought about it more, I realized it's the little blessings that we often overlook and probably shouldn't, so I am going to include it- no matter how silly it seems. Yesterday morning as I was getting dressed for church, I thought to myself how much I could use a brown or white dress cardigan. For some odd reason, I have several cardigans, but only one in a neutral color (black). Given my current wardrobe, brown or white would be really useful right now. Of course, I didn't mention that specifically when family asked about Christmas/birthday gift ideas so I thought it was probably too late. Then today, I went to Kohls- with a 30% off everything coupon (gotta love those!)- to do some Christmas shopping of my own. Besides the other great sales I found, I also ran across a nice brown cardigan. After applying my 30% off, it was also a very, very nice price, which was the only reason I ended up buying it, and all I could think was "Isn't it interesting that just yesterday I was thinking how much I could use a brown cardigan?" As silly as it may seem, I am still very thankful for my well-priced brown cardigan.
Tuesday, November 16th
88) Perseverance- There will always been events in life, big and small, that require your perseverance. Right now, we are trying to find a way to get our daughter's sleeping schedule all adjusted after Daylight Saving's ended. It's a small thing in the grand scheme of things, but right now it is making big waves in our house. No matter what the circumstance, though, perseverance will always be a blessing.
"For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, mutual affection; and to mutual affection, love. For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ." 2 Peter 1: 5-8
89) Jumping in to help- I always look forward to the time when Drew comes home from work, but today I was anxiously anticipating it. I woke up with a migraine, and despite all my best efforts throughout the day, the migraine only grew worse as the day went on. By the typical end of the work day, I was at my breaking point and our daughter seemed to be at her chattiest (though it seemed much louder than a chat). Of course, Drew has been working late this week. Today was no exception. He had no idea what I was dealing with at home but just happened to call on his way home to give me a piece of information, so I warned him that I was not feeling well at all. From the moment he walked in the door and had taken care of his work clothes, he took charge and jumped in to help. The next thing I knew, he and our daughter were back in her room quietly playing, which meant I could turn the lights off and sit in quiet. The rest of the evening went along a similar path.
Wednesday, November 17th
90) Pain free- There once was a time when every waking moment I felt some pain. I would go from migraines to lesser headaches, but I really never could recall a moment of the day or week that I didn't have some kind of pain in my head. All that varied was the intensity of the pain and what kind of side effects went with that pain. I am so grateful that, although, I may still get migraines I no longer vary solely between different levels of pain. When the migraine subsides, there is true relief from any and all pain. It is a blessing. It is one I went years without knowing and one many people with illnesses still do not have. I am grateful for each and every moment I have that is pain free.
91) Clean counters and sink- Now this blessing may have you concerned about the general cleanliness of our home, but please let me explain. I typically try to keep our kitchen counters clean of clutter and I try to keep the sink cleaned out as well. If all else fails during the day time, I always try to clean up the kitchen before I go to bed so I awake to a tidy space in the morning. However yesterday thanks to the migraine, all non-essential tasks went to the wayside. This means besides watching our daughter during the daytime and then just trying to keep my own pain levels from worsening, I did very little and tidying the kitchen, although I did think about it, did not get done. It's hard for me to go to bed knowing things are not cleaned up, but I knew what was necessary yesterday- and cleaning just wasn't on the list. Today the migraine slowly went away and I was able to resume my normal functions. With that, my kitchen is tidy once again. Yay for clean counters and sinks!
Thursday, November 18th
92) Drew's appreciation- The other evening I was stuck. I had one blessing and was trying to think of a second so I asked Drew to help me think back over my day. He quickly mentioned my crafting abilities and how I often have and continue to use them to make Christmas gifts. I quickly dismissed the idea because "I am only making two of our Christmas gifts this year." The conversation went on, but as I thought back on that conversation today, I realized I had done Drew a huge disservice. Drew was showing his great appreciation for my contributions to our family- not only by taking care of the house, groceries, laundry, errands, etc. but also through my crafting skills. He was complimenting me on the "job well done" on my latest project, a Christmas gift for my nephew, and instead of thanking him for the compliment, appreciation and help with my blog, I dismissed the idea outright. Drew shows this kind of appreciation often, but I am afraid I fail in this manner too frequently. I am grateful for his continuing appreciation, despite my poor reception.
93) Seeing myself in my toddler- This is both a blessing and a curse because what I see is both the good and the bad, the pretty and the ugly. However I like to look at the "curse" side of this as a blessing in camouflage because really I am seeing a miniature version of me. Like any child, she is honest to a fault, so what she depicts through her personality and traits is raw and unhindered, and those aspects which she has inherited or picked up by observing me are true and fair. So if they frighten, frustrate, bother or trouble me, perhaps I should take a second look. A second look at our daughter as we help her learn how to work with these personality traits and reactions so that she can handle them in good ways, but at the same time, a second look at myself, as well, so I can address those traits that my daughter inherited or picked up from me. My little girl is, at times, a little mirror reflecting both my good and bad character traits, showing me areas that shine and others that need to be mended, molded and find tuned.
Friday, November 12th
81) New Beginnings- This blessing is true on so many levels, but today I am looking at it through the eyes of an Army wife. Some people think about the frequent moves related to a military life and see that as a big negative, and honestly, there are moments when I give in to that mindset. Most of the time though, I enjoy the opportunities and new beginnings that come with the moves. Since Drew commissioned just shy of two years ago, I have lived in four different locations (five if you include the place we lived at the time of his commissioning). That fact is a bit extreme even for the Army but occurred because of our circumstances and the fact that Drew had additional, long-term training for his eventual career path with the Army. Living in five locations has allowed me to see some beautiful land and sights and meet some amazing people. We have worshipped with several wonderful church families as well. As we settle in and really begin another chapter of our life in the military, I am enjoying the new scenery and sights, the new culture and foods, the new area to explore and most importantly, the new relationships we are building.
Saturday, November 13th
82) "Mamen" - For the last month or two, Drew and I have been regularly praying with our daughter before every meal and having her repeat "Amen" at the end to let her know the prayer was finished. While the deeper concept hasn't set in, she does know to fold her hands and generally knows she should remain quiet until we say Amen. Just last week, she found a doll that says the common child's evening prayer when you press on it's belly. Our daughter has become attached to this dollie and will often repeat the word Amen after the dollie- except she says "Mamen." So this morning when I set her bowl of oatmeal in front of her, it was so wonderful to see all of the ideas and practice coming together as she immediately folded her hands and said "Mamen." We still have work, but what a start!
83) Little grins- Drew has had a training schedule for the past few weeks which has meant that our daughter has not seen him. Finally after two weeks, they have been reunited and what a wonderful day it was! I have thoroughly enjoyed watching all of her interactions with him. She has this endearing way of tilting her head to the side and shyly grinning at Drew. The look could melt ice in an instant. It is so wonderful to see how strong the bond is between her and Drew despite the period of time they have been separated. I couldn't ask for much more. I am so grateful.
Sunday, November 14th
84) Drew's involvement- After two weeks where our daughter was solely in my care, I could see a difference in her. It was nothing too extreme. She was still a good girl, but there were minor changes. Today during church service, though, I could see the effect that Drew's presence had on her. It was a reminder to me of how thankful I am that Drew desires to be present and involved in her life. I have always felt so strongly about the importance of the presence of both the father and mother, when circumstances allow, but I also know that some people view involvement in difference lights. I am grateful that Drew takes the role he does, especially given the work schedule he has had to maintain thus far during our daughter's lifetime.
85) Each moment and day with Drew- Time is precious. This lesson was one that Drew and I learned early in our relationship, but it is an important one to remember. Military life has made this fact only more clear to me. It is not because of the every day tasks he performs or the relief from childcare he can provide me; Drew brightens my day. He understands me and helps keep me grounded in a way that almost no one else here on earth can do. I can live a day without him, and often have to do so, but I prefer the days when he is near. Days when he is away remind me just how precious and special each moment with him is. Tomorrow is not guaranteed; in fact, the next hour, even the next minute, is not guaranteed, so do not take it for granted.
Monday, November 15th
86) Confirmation- When our daughter started showing additional food sensitivities/allergies, my biggest worry/concern was that despite what seemed to be a healthy diet she might be eating poorly or more specifically, not eating enough of certain food groups or getting enough of certain vitamins/minerals, etc. I was, therefore, very grateful that we had an opportunity to sit down with a pediatric dietitian to discuss her current diet and go over the best diet for a child her age. What was even more unexpected and exciting was the amazing confirmation we received from the dietitian. She was so pleased with the manner with which we had approached our daughter's sensitivities and the variety of foods in each food group that we were still offering her. She really offered us great encouragement concerning how we were addressing any issues that arose and how we addressed the limitations we face given the diet restrictions. What a wonderful blessing as diet is such an important issue for any child and parent, especially at this young age when doctors are constantly discussing how a child's diet can aid or hinder them in other developmental areas.
87) Brown Dressy Cardigan- Okay, so this kind of seems silly and insignificant, but it really made my morning. When I thought about it more, I realized it's the little blessings that we often overlook and probably shouldn't, so I am going to include it- no matter how silly it seems. Yesterday morning as I was getting dressed for church, I thought to myself how much I could use a brown or white dress cardigan. For some odd reason, I have several cardigans, but only one in a neutral color (black). Given my current wardrobe, brown or white would be really useful right now. Of course, I didn't mention that specifically when family asked about Christmas/birthday gift ideas so I thought it was probably too late. Then today, I went to Kohls- with a 30% off everything coupon (gotta love those!)- to do some Christmas shopping of my own. Besides the other great sales I found, I also ran across a nice brown cardigan. After applying my 30% off, it was also a very, very nice price, which was the only reason I ended up buying it, and all I could think was "Isn't it interesting that just yesterday I was thinking how much I could use a brown cardigan?" As silly as it may seem, I am still very thankful for my well-priced brown cardigan.
Tuesday, November 16th
88) Perseverance- There will always been events in life, big and small, that require your perseverance. Right now, we are trying to find a way to get our daughter's sleeping schedule all adjusted after Daylight Saving's ended. It's a small thing in the grand scheme of things, but right now it is making big waves in our house. No matter what the circumstance, though, perseverance will always be a blessing.
"For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, mutual affection; and to mutual affection, love. For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ." 2 Peter 1: 5-8
89) Jumping in to help- I always look forward to the time when Drew comes home from work, but today I was anxiously anticipating it. I woke up with a migraine, and despite all my best efforts throughout the day, the migraine only grew worse as the day went on. By the typical end of the work day, I was at my breaking point and our daughter seemed to be at her chattiest (though it seemed much louder than a chat). Of course, Drew has been working late this week. Today was no exception. He had no idea what I was dealing with at home but just happened to call on his way home to give me a piece of information, so I warned him that I was not feeling well at all. From the moment he walked in the door and had taken care of his work clothes, he took charge and jumped in to help. The next thing I knew, he and our daughter were back in her room quietly playing, which meant I could turn the lights off and sit in quiet. The rest of the evening went along a similar path.
Wednesday, November 17th
90) Pain free- There once was a time when every waking moment I felt some pain. I would go from migraines to lesser headaches, but I really never could recall a moment of the day or week that I didn't have some kind of pain in my head. All that varied was the intensity of the pain and what kind of side effects went with that pain. I am so grateful that, although, I may still get migraines I no longer vary solely between different levels of pain. When the migraine subsides, there is true relief from any and all pain. It is a blessing. It is one I went years without knowing and one many people with illnesses still do not have. I am grateful for each and every moment I have that is pain free.
91) Clean counters and sink- Now this blessing may have you concerned about the general cleanliness of our home, but please let me explain. I typically try to keep our kitchen counters clean of clutter and I try to keep the sink cleaned out as well. If all else fails during the day time, I always try to clean up the kitchen before I go to bed so I awake to a tidy space in the morning. However yesterday thanks to the migraine, all non-essential tasks went to the wayside. This means besides watching our daughter during the daytime and then just trying to keep my own pain levels from worsening, I did very little and tidying the kitchen, although I did think about it, did not get done. It's hard for me to go to bed knowing things are not cleaned up, but I knew what was necessary yesterday- and cleaning just wasn't on the list. Today the migraine slowly went away and I was able to resume my normal functions. With that, my kitchen is tidy once again. Yay for clean counters and sinks!
Thursday, November 18th
92) Drew's appreciation- The other evening I was stuck. I had one blessing and was trying to think of a second so I asked Drew to help me think back over my day. He quickly mentioned my crafting abilities and how I often have and continue to use them to make Christmas gifts. I quickly dismissed the idea because "I am only making two of our Christmas gifts this year." The conversation went on, but as I thought back on that conversation today, I realized I had done Drew a huge disservice. Drew was showing his great appreciation for my contributions to our family- not only by taking care of the house, groceries, laundry, errands, etc. but also through my crafting skills. He was complimenting me on the "job well done" on my latest project, a Christmas gift for my nephew, and instead of thanking him for the compliment, appreciation and help with my blog, I dismissed the idea outright. Drew shows this kind of appreciation often, but I am afraid I fail in this manner too frequently. I am grateful for his continuing appreciation, despite my poor reception.
93) Seeing myself in my toddler- This is both a blessing and a curse because what I see is both the good and the bad, the pretty and the ugly. However I like to look at the "curse" side of this as a blessing in camouflage because really I am seeing a miniature version of me. Like any child, she is honest to a fault, so what she depicts through her personality and traits is raw and unhindered, and those aspects which she has inherited or picked up by observing me are true and fair. So if they frighten, frustrate, bother or trouble me, perhaps I should take a second look. A second look at our daughter as we help her learn how to work with these personality traits and reactions so that she can handle them in good ways, but at the same time, a second look at myself, as well, so I can address those traits that my daughter inherited or picked up from me. My little girl is, at times, a little mirror reflecting both my good and bad character traits, showing me areas that shine and others that need to be mended, molded and find tuned.
Friday, November 12, 2010
I Am Not An Island: Seventy-Three through Eighty
"Be strong and very courageous. Be careful to obey all the law my servant Moses gave you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left, that you may be successful wherever you go." Joshua 1: 7
Monday, November 8th
73) "Yights" - If you couldn't guess, this is one of our daughter's newest and most favorite observations. She is enthralled by "yights." She loves to point every "yight" in the room out to you; she loves to turn them on and off, and when we go to a store, we almost always take time to walk through the Christmas aisle just so we can see all the Christmas "yights." She gets so excited each and every time she sees the lights go on and off. What gets me about the "yights" isn't the cute way our daughter says the word, but the wonder and awe with which she is observing the world around her. It is something we adults can often take for granted, but there is so much in this world that is wondrous and awe-inspiring. I am grateful that I have a beautiful little reminder in our little girl who is experiencing this world for the first time.
74) Accountability- This may step on a few toes, but I suppose that is a part of accountability so I am going to say it anyway. A major problem that I see within our society- individually and as a unit- is the unwillingness to accept responsibility. Excuses and blame seem to reign supreme. Sadly I think that can even be seen within the Church and you can even hear that from some pulpits. Perhaps not throwing blame on someone else, but I know too often we, the Church, soften the truth so people don't have to accept responsibility for their own actions. That shouldn't be. I am blessed to know several men and women who are standing up for the truth. It takes more love to hold someone accountable for their actions than it does to ignore them and it is refreshing to see people who are willing to openly and publicly demonstrate that kind of love.
Tuesday, November 9th
75) Our daughter's hugs in the grocery store- Today I went grocery shopping, but this was no normal grocery shopping trip. I had one specific purpose; I was buying a few items for our daughter. I wanted, at least, one salty cracker and one type of sweet cracker or cookie. I also needed to look for mayonnaise or an alternative and while we were at the store, I figured we would just take in if there were other viable options for a child on a dairy-free, soy-free diet. When it comes to crackers, cookies and other prepared items, the answer quite succinctly is no. There really just isn't. We looked in the organic section, but even there, we often ran into soy. Then I turned to the vegan section and while I had slightly better luck there, soy is still a major player. I did manage to find at least one of each of what I set out for, so the reality should have been... mission accomplished, but I felt discouraged. The options are so limited for our daughter right now (here's hoping these restrictions are temporary and not permanent), and what options we have are so much more costly than what we are used to spending that I felt at a complete loss. At one point, I let out a deflated sigh and slightly hung my head, and do you know what happened next? First our daughter made me laugh by whinnying like a horse (her way of mimicking my sigh). Second she gave me a hug and began to pat me on the back. She hugged me not once, but twice. It was the sweetest, most innocent and loving of gestures. What a kid! What a blessing!
76) Faith of my Grandfathers and Grandmothers- I have been truly blessed to come from such a strong, Godly family- men and women, who not only regularly attended church, participated in the church body and served the Lord in their community, but also lived out their faith every moment of their life even when it seemed no one else was looking. I have had the privilege to see their faith in action at times and have heard or read so many other stories over the years. It is a reminder for me, when times get rough or tough, that you can still have peace, contentment and joy no matter your circumstances for our joy, etc. is not dependent on things of this world but is found in Christ and the knowledge that one day we will be called home. What a wonderful blessing that I can call them Grandma and Grandpa. To all four of them, I love you!
Oh may all who come behind us find us faithful.
May the fire of our devotion light their way.
May the footprints that we leave,
Lead them to believe,
And the lives we live inspire them to obey.
Oh may all who come behind us find us faithful.
("Find Us Faithful"- Steve Green)
Wednesday, November 10th
77) Ministers and teachers along the way- There are some people who were truly blessed with the spiritual gift of preaching and teaching. Of course this is probably not ground breaking news to most people; it does come straight out of the New Testament. However, I feel blessed to have known and listened to the sermons and lessons of several such men and women. Every minister from our home churches has blessed me as have many others I have had the opportunity to hear when visiting their churches. Numerous teachers- from Sunday School, youth group, Bible studies, and at Johnson Bible College- have greatly impacted my life and led through an example of discipline, devotion and love. I am so grateful for their willingness and dedication to serve Christ in this manner, whether by profession or otherwise.
78) Our daughter's incredible obedience today- I have been working on a Christmas present this past week that involves quite a bit of painting. Primarily I only paint while our daughter is napping or has laid down for the night because the paint bottles alone have so peaked her interest that I knew she would only be more curious if she saw me "playing" with the paint. Of course, she would want to join in. Well today, I had to mix a couple of colors together to get the color I needed, but I wasn't finished when our daughter woke from her nap. Now I faced a dilemma. What to do? I knew I still had quite a bit to do with the mixed color and because of where I was painting, I didn't want to chance setting it aside, remixing the color and hoping I got the same color. It would be too obvious if the colors were off even the tiniest bit and would bother me, even if no one else noticed. So I made a decision, I would get our daughter up and once she came into the area where I was painting, I would set some clear boundaries about what she couldn't touch (pretty much anything I had out related to my painting project), then we would see what happened. If it just was too much trouble, I would go to Plan B. She did great. She listened, repeated the items that were "no no's" and obediently did not touch them again. She would watch me for a while and then go off somewhere else to play. When she came back, it only took one little reminder and she would either sit down and watch or head off somewhere else. I was able to paint for over another hour and complete that portion of the project without a single incident related with our daughter. Even though she is extremely curious and loves anything in a bottle (like the paint bottles), she did excellent.
Thursday, November 11th
79) Giving- "It is more blessed to give than to receive." Acts 20:35b I don't really feel like I need to say anything more. This comes straight from the Bible and it's pretty succinct. I will say that this is one verse that I have seen proven true in my life time and time again, whether it be through our giving monetarily to the Church, giving my time as a volunteer, giving for a holiday outreach program, or even giving presents to friends and family. There is something wonderful and joy-filled in doing something for another.
80) Common Budgeting Approaches- So I flipped to "The Fairy Jobmother" tonight just to see what the premise was. I didn't really watch it very intently, but I have been kind of out of it this evening and was looking for any kind of distraction. It was a reminder, though, of how incredibly stressful finances can be on a marriage. I have always been very, very cautious with money, feeling that it never hurts to have a little more money saved . I have relaxed quite a bit from the mindset I had when I was in college and saving every penny to cover the expense of college and preparing to live on my own for the first time, but still, I am frugal (to word it nicely). To many people, this would be an aggravating, irritating and intolerable attribute because of the extent I can go to. I just prefer to pay for everything up front with cash than put it on credit (except for the absolute rare exception or special circumstances). I have been blessed to have found and married a man who shares my opinion. Instead of being upset that I would rather save every extra penny he earns for the next large item we are looking to purchase or just to build our savings, he generally understands. This fact has only solidified and strengthened our marriage and I am so grateful we have continued to approach finances in such a similar manner.
Monday, November 8th
73) "Yights" - If you couldn't guess, this is one of our daughter's newest and most favorite observations. She is enthralled by "yights." She loves to point every "yight" in the room out to you; she loves to turn them on and off, and when we go to a store, we almost always take time to walk through the Christmas aisle just so we can see all the Christmas "yights." She gets so excited each and every time she sees the lights go on and off. What gets me about the "yights" isn't the cute way our daughter says the word, but the wonder and awe with which she is observing the world around her. It is something we adults can often take for granted, but there is so much in this world that is wondrous and awe-inspiring. I am grateful that I have a beautiful little reminder in our little girl who is experiencing this world for the first time.
74) Accountability- This may step on a few toes, but I suppose that is a part of accountability so I am going to say it anyway. A major problem that I see within our society- individually and as a unit- is the unwillingness to accept responsibility. Excuses and blame seem to reign supreme. Sadly I think that can even be seen within the Church and you can even hear that from some pulpits. Perhaps not throwing blame on someone else, but I know too often we, the Church, soften the truth so people don't have to accept responsibility for their own actions. That shouldn't be. I am blessed to know several men and women who are standing up for the truth. It takes more love to hold someone accountable for their actions than it does to ignore them and it is refreshing to see people who are willing to openly and publicly demonstrate that kind of love.
Tuesday, November 9th
75) Our daughter's hugs in the grocery store- Today I went grocery shopping, but this was no normal grocery shopping trip. I had one specific purpose; I was buying a few items for our daughter. I wanted, at least, one salty cracker and one type of sweet cracker or cookie. I also needed to look for mayonnaise or an alternative and while we were at the store, I figured we would just take in if there were other viable options for a child on a dairy-free, soy-free diet. When it comes to crackers, cookies and other prepared items, the answer quite succinctly is no. There really just isn't. We looked in the organic section, but even there, we often ran into soy. Then I turned to the vegan section and while I had slightly better luck there, soy is still a major player. I did manage to find at least one of each of what I set out for, so the reality should have been... mission accomplished, but I felt discouraged. The options are so limited for our daughter right now (here's hoping these restrictions are temporary and not permanent), and what options we have are so much more costly than what we are used to spending that I felt at a complete loss. At one point, I let out a deflated sigh and slightly hung my head, and do you know what happened next? First our daughter made me laugh by whinnying like a horse (her way of mimicking my sigh). Second she gave me a hug and began to pat me on the back. She hugged me not once, but twice. It was the sweetest, most innocent and loving of gestures. What a kid! What a blessing!
76) Faith of my Grandfathers and Grandmothers- I have been truly blessed to come from such a strong, Godly family- men and women, who not only regularly attended church, participated in the church body and served the Lord in their community, but also lived out their faith every moment of their life even when it seemed no one else was looking. I have had the privilege to see their faith in action at times and have heard or read so many other stories over the years. It is a reminder for me, when times get rough or tough, that you can still have peace, contentment and joy no matter your circumstances for our joy, etc. is not dependent on things of this world but is found in Christ and the knowledge that one day we will be called home. What a wonderful blessing that I can call them Grandma and Grandpa. To all four of them, I love you!
Oh may all who come behind us find us faithful.
May the fire of our devotion light their way.
May the footprints that we leave,
Lead them to believe,
And the lives we live inspire them to obey.
Oh may all who come behind us find us faithful.
("Find Us Faithful"- Steve Green)
Wednesday, November 10th
77) Ministers and teachers along the way- There are some people who were truly blessed with the spiritual gift of preaching and teaching. Of course this is probably not ground breaking news to most people; it does come straight out of the New Testament. However, I feel blessed to have known and listened to the sermons and lessons of several such men and women. Every minister from our home churches has blessed me as have many others I have had the opportunity to hear when visiting their churches. Numerous teachers- from Sunday School, youth group, Bible studies, and at Johnson Bible College- have greatly impacted my life and led through an example of discipline, devotion and love. I am so grateful for their willingness and dedication to serve Christ in this manner, whether by profession or otherwise.
78) Our daughter's incredible obedience today- I have been working on a Christmas present this past week that involves quite a bit of painting. Primarily I only paint while our daughter is napping or has laid down for the night because the paint bottles alone have so peaked her interest that I knew she would only be more curious if she saw me "playing" with the paint. Of course, she would want to join in. Well today, I had to mix a couple of colors together to get the color I needed, but I wasn't finished when our daughter woke from her nap. Now I faced a dilemma. What to do? I knew I still had quite a bit to do with the mixed color and because of where I was painting, I didn't want to chance setting it aside, remixing the color and hoping I got the same color. It would be too obvious if the colors were off even the tiniest bit and would bother me, even if no one else noticed. So I made a decision, I would get our daughter up and once she came into the area where I was painting, I would set some clear boundaries about what she couldn't touch (pretty much anything I had out related to my painting project), then we would see what happened. If it just was too much trouble, I would go to Plan B. She did great. She listened, repeated the items that were "no no's" and obediently did not touch them again. She would watch me for a while and then go off somewhere else to play. When she came back, it only took one little reminder and she would either sit down and watch or head off somewhere else. I was able to paint for over another hour and complete that portion of the project without a single incident related with our daughter. Even though she is extremely curious and loves anything in a bottle (like the paint bottles), she did excellent.
Thursday, November 11th
79) Giving- "It is more blessed to give than to receive." Acts 20:35b I don't really feel like I need to say anything more. This comes straight from the Bible and it's pretty succinct. I will say that this is one verse that I have seen proven true in my life time and time again, whether it be through our giving monetarily to the Church, giving my time as a volunteer, giving for a holiday outreach program, or even giving presents to friends and family. There is something wonderful and joy-filled in doing something for another.
80) Common Budgeting Approaches- So I flipped to "The Fairy Jobmother" tonight just to see what the premise was. I didn't really watch it very intently, but I have been kind of out of it this evening and was looking for any kind of distraction. It was a reminder, though, of how incredibly stressful finances can be on a marriage. I have always been very, very cautious with money, feeling that it never hurts to have a little more money saved . I have relaxed quite a bit from the mindset I had when I was in college and saving every penny to cover the expense of college and preparing to live on my own for the first time, but still, I am frugal (to word it nicely). To many people, this would be an aggravating, irritating and intolerable attribute because of the extent I can go to. I just prefer to pay for everything up front with cash than put it on credit (except for the absolute rare exception or special circumstances). I have been blessed to have found and married a man who shares my opinion. Instead of being upset that I would rather save every extra penny he earns for the next large item we are looking to purchase or just to build our savings, he generally understands. This fact has only solidified and strengthened our marriage and I am so grateful we have continued to approach finances in such a similar manner.
Monday, November 8, 2010
Lessons: Sixty-Seven through Seventy-Two
"Who will separate us from the love of Christ? Will tribulation or distress, or persecution or famine or nakedness, or peril, or sword? But in all these things we overwhelmingly conquer through Him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord." Romans 8:35,37-39 (NASB)
Friday, November 5th
67) Good listeners- In my life, I have been blessed with many people who are such good listeners and I am so thankful for each and every one of them- my husband, my parents, my sister, and so many of my friends. So often when I am struggling with a difficult circumstance or debating the benefits of various options, I really need to bounce my ideas or thoughts off someone else. Otherwise I just feel like all my thoughts are spinning around inside my head, going faster and faster. Thanks to all these wonderful listeners, I love the direction life is taking me and I still have my sanity despite some challenging circumstances.
68) Wearing Pre-Baby Jeans- So this morning I pulled out another three pairs of my pre-baby jeans that I can wear. I am now wearing all of my pre-baby bottoms except for the smallest sizes (and most of those are junior sizes which I may never fit into again). Honestly if I think about it, I don't think those bottoms were really fitting me that well before I got pregnant anyway, but that is beside the point. What is so thrilling to me is that there is just something so slimming about fitting into your pre-baby jeans. I really wasn't feeling any skinnier this morning, but when I put on my pre-baby jeans, I suddenly felt slimmer. Kind of crazy, isn't it? I know. It's all just a head game, obviously. I guess I just had a different idea of what my body looked like before I got pregnant, but wow, does it feel good to fit into most of my pre-baby jeans again!
Saturday, November 6th
69) Wheat Thins- Right about now I am thankful for just about any food that our daughter can eat, especially if that food is actually in our house (because it seems like there is a lot in our house that she cannot eat). But even more so, I am thankful for those crackers and cookies that she can eat, and believe me, those are few and far between. Right now, Wheat Thins are the one and only cracker our little girl can eat. (I need to go shopping and see if there are any others.) She usually asks so politely for a cracker, and it really is wonderful to know I have something I can give her.
70) Answered prayers- A few weeks back, I began to pray about this past week because I knew it would hold some challenges for me, so I asked for a specific attribute from God and requested others to pray on my behalf as well. Ha! Do you know how some people say you should never ask for patience unless you really want it because God will always place you in a position where you can LEARN patience? I feel as though the Lord answered my prayer, emphatically, with a very strong lesson. It has not been an easy lesson; I am not even sure I have learned everything yet from the lesson, but I do believe I will come out a stronger, more confident, more able woman on the other side. I also believe that I will be able to draw on the lessons of this past week for years to come. So perhaps my prayer was not answered in the way I imagined, but it was answered as it should be. Of course with God, that is how it always turns out.
Sunday, November 7th
71) Days filled with song- Have you ever had a day where you just felt like music filled your thoughts, your moods and your heart? I had a good friend my first few years of college who just lived life that way. She loved music with a passion and always seemed to have music flowing through her thoughts. Often she would just burst into song. I am not like that all the time, but today I felt like I must have had a small glimpse of what a typical day was like for her. For some odd reason, I woke up, on my own, mind you, at 3:30 this morning. Crazy girl that I am, this seems to becoming a normal thing for me the past few mornings, but the new thing that happened this morning was that I woke up with a song on my mind.
Then on our way to church, I heard the song "Beautiful" by Mercy Me for the first time. If you haven't heard it, find it on You Tube or some other media and listen to it. The words are amazing and the music that accompanies those words is wonderful as well. It really is a beautiful song with a wonderful message concerning just how special and precious we are to God. Of course, my musical day didn't end there, I found myself humming "Tell Me the Story" during Sunday School and seemed to hum my way straight through the rest of my day. Music really has a way of enriching our lives, but it also has a way of teaching us. It helps us to remember things. (How many of you learned your books of the Bibles by learning a song? I know both Drew and I did.) It comforts us, brings us joy and offers us a way to release emotions. My day filled with song has been like a day floating on air.
72) Second Chances- I am so grateful for second chances.... and third chances.... and fourth chances.... and seventy times seven chances because I am not perfect and I mess up.
Friday, November 5th
67) Good listeners- In my life, I have been blessed with many people who are such good listeners and I am so thankful for each and every one of them- my husband, my parents, my sister, and so many of my friends. So often when I am struggling with a difficult circumstance or debating the benefits of various options, I really need to bounce my ideas or thoughts off someone else. Otherwise I just feel like all my thoughts are spinning around inside my head, going faster and faster. Thanks to all these wonderful listeners, I love the direction life is taking me and I still have my sanity despite some challenging circumstances.
68) Wearing Pre-Baby Jeans- So this morning I pulled out another three pairs of my pre-baby jeans that I can wear. I am now wearing all of my pre-baby bottoms except for the smallest sizes (and most of those are junior sizes which I may never fit into again). Honestly if I think about it, I don't think those bottoms were really fitting me that well before I got pregnant anyway, but that is beside the point. What is so thrilling to me is that there is just something so slimming about fitting into your pre-baby jeans. I really wasn't feeling any skinnier this morning, but when I put on my pre-baby jeans, I suddenly felt slimmer. Kind of crazy, isn't it? I know. It's all just a head game, obviously. I guess I just had a different idea of what my body looked like before I got pregnant, but wow, does it feel good to fit into most of my pre-baby jeans again!
Saturday, November 6th
69) Wheat Thins- Right about now I am thankful for just about any food that our daughter can eat, especially if that food is actually in our house (because it seems like there is a lot in our house that she cannot eat). But even more so, I am thankful for those crackers and cookies that she can eat, and believe me, those are few and far between. Right now, Wheat Thins are the one and only cracker our little girl can eat. (I need to go shopping and see if there are any others.) She usually asks so politely for a cracker, and it really is wonderful to know I have something I can give her.
70) Answered prayers- A few weeks back, I began to pray about this past week because I knew it would hold some challenges for me, so I asked for a specific attribute from God and requested others to pray on my behalf as well. Ha! Do you know how some people say you should never ask for patience unless you really want it because God will always place you in a position where you can LEARN patience? I feel as though the Lord answered my prayer, emphatically, with a very strong lesson. It has not been an easy lesson; I am not even sure I have learned everything yet from the lesson, but I do believe I will come out a stronger, more confident, more able woman on the other side. I also believe that I will be able to draw on the lessons of this past week for years to come. So perhaps my prayer was not answered in the way I imagined, but it was answered as it should be. Of course with God, that is how it always turns out.
Sunday, November 7th
71) Days filled with song- Have you ever had a day where you just felt like music filled your thoughts, your moods and your heart? I had a good friend my first few years of college who just lived life that way. She loved music with a passion and always seemed to have music flowing through her thoughts. Often she would just burst into song. I am not like that all the time, but today I felt like I must have had a small glimpse of what a typical day was like for her. For some odd reason, I woke up, on my own, mind you, at 3:30 this morning. Crazy girl that I am, this seems to becoming a normal thing for me the past few mornings, but the new thing that happened this morning was that I woke up with a song on my mind.
I will lift up mine eyes to the hills
from whence cometh my help,
my help cometh from the Lord,
the Lord which made Heaven and Earth.
He said He will not suffer thy foot,
thy foot to be moved;
the Lord which keepeth thee,
He will not slumber nor sleep.
For the Lord is thy keeper,
the Lord is thy shade
upon thy right hand,
upon thy right hand.
Nor the sun shall not smite thee by day,
nor the moon by night,
He shall preserve thy soul
even forever more.
My help, my help, my help,
all of my help cometh from the Lord.
from whence cometh my help,
my help cometh from the Lord,
the Lord which made Heaven and Earth.
He said He will not suffer thy foot,
thy foot to be moved;
the Lord which keepeth thee,
He will not slumber nor sleep.
For the Lord is thy keeper,
the Lord is thy shade
upon thy right hand,
upon thy right hand.
Nor the sun shall not smite thee by day,
nor the moon by night,
He shall preserve thy soul
even forever more.
My help, my help, my help,
all of my help cometh from the Lord.
("My Help" -Brooklyn Tabernacle Choir-- taken directly from Psalms 121)
Then on our way to church, I heard the song "Beautiful" by Mercy Me for the first time. If you haven't heard it, find it on You Tube or some other media and listen to it. The words are amazing and the music that accompanies those words is wonderful as well. It really is a beautiful song with a wonderful message concerning just how special and precious we are to God. Of course, my musical day didn't end there, I found myself humming "Tell Me the Story" during Sunday School and seemed to hum my way straight through the rest of my day. Music really has a way of enriching our lives, but it also has a way of teaching us. It helps us to remember things. (How many of you learned your books of the Bibles by learning a song? I know both Drew and I did.) It comforts us, brings us joy and offers us a way to release emotions. My day filled with song has been like a day floating on air.
72) Second Chances- I am so grateful for second chances.... and third chances.... and fourth chances.... and seventy times seven chances because I am not perfect and I mess up.
"And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose." Romans 8:28 (NASB)
Friday, November 5, 2010
Onward: Sixty-Three through Sixty-Six
"Therefore, we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal." 2 Corinthians 4: 16-18
I have noticed that several people have started to do "30 days of Thanksgiving" throughout the month of November on Facebook. I hope that they find it to be as uplifting and encouraging as I have found counting my blessings and perhaps they will even find it so addictive they won't quit when December 1st rolls around.
I wish you all the best and pray this is a month of great thanksgiving for you all!
Wednesday, November 3rd
63) Nothing new- "What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun." Ecclesiastes 1:9
So today hasn't been a stellar day for me as Mom and thanks to that it has been a rough day for our daughter. I realized this morning that for the past week or so I have been feeding her oatmeal that includes milk in the ingredients. That may seem like an easy oversight except for the fact that "cream" is actually in the flavor title. You'd think that would have been a pretty good clue that some kind of dairy was included, and seeing that our daughter cannot currently tolerate dairy, she has slowly been feeling worse and worse- culminating today. This morning she finally boycotted the oatmeal because it was bothering her stomach so much and after trying to no avail to make her eat the cereal, I finally realized what I was doing. Whoops.
As I thought about our continuing struggles with our daughter's food sensitivities- which just seem to be growing, the verse from Ecclesiastes (above) came to mind and I found myself greatly comforted. Nothing I experience is new. Whether I am dealing with my child's food allergies, the plights of an army officer's wife, a wife in general, a woman, or even just the struggles, illnesses and stresses we face as human beings, nothing is new, and therefore I am not alone. Someone here on earth understands. Most likely someone here in the town I live, near to me, understands. It may mean opening up and allowing myself to be vulnerable, but I do not have to deal with these trials alone. Nothing is new.
64) New takes on old lessons- When you have grown up in the church, there are certain lessons you have heard over and over again, and it can seem as though you know them by heart. It can even be easy to fall into the trap to believe there is nothing new to learn on the topic. I have to admit that I have fallen into that trap, but I promised myself that I would be open minded and see if maybe someone had something new to offer on the topic. I am glad I opened my mind, and with it, I learned a little bit of humility too. Both are good lessons. Hopefully both with stay with me as well.
Thursday, November 4th
65) Our daughter loves meats, fruits and vegetables- In general, this seems to be a very big blessing, as you see so many parents struggle to encourage or entice their children to eat one or more of the above items. With our daughter, it is even more of a blessing as these items are such a staple in her diet. Since we have had to eliminate anything with dairy, soy or tomato as an ingredient, I have found that there really are very few packaged products left for her to eat, especially packaged products that are more conducive for a toddler. I am not saying that there is nothing out there, but we have had to eliminate several additional items from our daughter's diet in the past week. I am so thankful that she enjoys the basics and it isn't a struggle to get her to eat meats, fruits and vegetables. I can give her a plate of ham, cooked broccoli and peaches, and she is perfectly happy. That is a true blessing.
66) True spirit is recognized- In the past six to eight years, I have had a few people tell me that when they first met me, they thought I was a snob or stuck up, and it was only after getting to know me better that they realized I was really quite friendly and down to earth. Of course it was quite shocking and disconcerting to hear that I came off in such a manner initially. I know it is tied to a bit of shyness that is only present with strangers or when I am in larger groups. Still, I would never want people to feel that way when they are around me, but I am comforted by the fact that, with time and given the chance, eventually people will see and recognize my true personality and spirit. Even more so, I take great joy and am thankful to know that, even if people do not take the time or give me the chance, God does not judge me on my actions alone. For "The LORD does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart." 1 Samuel 16:7b
I have noticed that several people have started to do "30 days of Thanksgiving" throughout the month of November on Facebook. I hope that they find it to be as uplifting and encouraging as I have found counting my blessings and perhaps they will even find it so addictive they won't quit when December 1st rolls around.
I wish you all the best and pray this is a month of great thanksgiving for you all!
Wednesday, November 3rd
63) Nothing new- "What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun." Ecclesiastes 1:9
So today hasn't been a stellar day for me as Mom and thanks to that it has been a rough day for our daughter. I realized this morning that for the past week or so I have been feeding her oatmeal that includes milk in the ingredients. That may seem like an easy oversight except for the fact that "cream" is actually in the flavor title. You'd think that would have been a pretty good clue that some kind of dairy was included, and seeing that our daughter cannot currently tolerate dairy, she has slowly been feeling worse and worse- culminating today. This morning she finally boycotted the oatmeal because it was bothering her stomach so much and after trying to no avail to make her eat the cereal, I finally realized what I was doing. Whoops.
As I thought about our continuing struggles with our daughter's food sensitivities- which just seem to be growing, the verse from Ecclesiastes (above) came to mind and I found myself greatly comforted. Nothing I experience is new. Whether I am dealing with my child's food allergies, the plights of an army officer's wife, a wife in general, a woman, or even just the struggles, illnesses and stresses we face as human beings, nothing is new, and therefore I am not alone. Someone here on earth understands. Most likely someone here in the town I live, near to me, understands. It may mean opening up and allowing myself to be vulnerable, but I do not have to deal with these trials alone. Nothing is new.
64) New takes on old lessons- When you have grown up in the church, there are certain lessons you have heard over and over again, and it can seem as though you know them by heart. It can even be easy to fall into the trap to believe there is nothing new to learn on the topic. I have to admit that I have fallen into that trap, but I promised myself that I would be open minded and see if maybe someone had something new to offer on the topic. I am glad I opened my mind, and with it, I learned a little bit of humility too. Both are good lessons. Hopefully both with stay with me as well.
Thursday, November 4th
65) Our daughter loves meats, fruits and vegetables- In general, this seems to be a very big blessing, as you see so many parents struggle to encourage or entice their children to eat one or more of the above items. With our daughter, it is even more of a blessing as these items are such a staple in her diet. Since we have had to eliminate anything with dairy, soy or tomato as an ingredient, I have found that there really are very few packaged products left for her to eat, especially packaged products that are more conducive for a toddler. I am not saying that there is nothing out there, but we have had to eliminate several additional items from our daughter's diet in the past week. I am so thankful that she enjoys the basics and it isn't a struggle to get her to eat meats, fruits and vegetables. I can give her a plate of ham, cooked broccoli and peaches, and she is perfectly happy. That is a true blessing.
66) True spirit is recognized- In the past six to eight years, I have had a few people tell me that when they first met me, they thought I was a snob or stuck up, and it was only after getting to know me better that they realized I was really quite friendly and down to earth. Of course it was quite shocking and disconcerting to hear that I came off in such a manner initially. I know it is tied to a bit of shyness that is only present with strangers or when I am in larger groups. Still, I would never want people to feel that way when they are around me, but I am comforted by the fact that, with time and given the chance, eventually people will see and recognize my true personality and spirit. Even more so, I take great joy and am thankful to know that, even if people do not take the time or give me the chance, God does not judge me on my actions alone. For "The LORD does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart." 1 Samuel 16:7b
Tuesday, November 2, 2010
Relationships: Fifty-One to Sixty-Two
"For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God. The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, “Abba, Father.” The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children. Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory." Romans 8:14-17
Thursday, October 28th
51) No expectation that I'll be the 1950's stay-at-home wife- Generally speaking, I like to keep an orderly, fairly clean home. I enjoy the opportunities to try out new recipes for dinner and do not mind the laundry or errand running, but the reality is that most days when Drew walks through the door he is not greeted by a pristine wife with dinner half prepared and a picked up house. No, more than likely dinner may have been thought about but not begun, and there is probably at least one mess of toys somewhere in the house (and it may be directly in front of his feet as he steps through the doors). This fact never phases Drew nor does it cause him to question my activities during the day. Thank you. Thank you!
52) Toys picked up- Picking up after our daughter really does not take a long time. Even if the mess looks huge, it can usually be all cleared away within minutes. Of course, after picking up the same general toys and returning them to the same spots once or twice a day, every day for a couple of months, I appreciate a little break, so when I saw Drew picking up our daughter's toys tonight after we laid her down to sleep for the night, it meant so much to me. He chose to do it all on his own and I know it was not because it bothered him but because he knew it was something I would do before the night was over.
Friday, October 29th
53) Family "Date" night- This is a tradition Drew and I started back in Florida. Our daughter was quite young, we didn't know many people in town, but we wanted to be able to go out on a date. Instead of always ordering in or giving up, we modified our plans a little and made our date night a family date night and I love it. Don't get me wrong, I still love going on dates just with Drew, but I also love the special times we set aside as a family. Right now we may go out for dinner, but in the future, it will likely turn into family night- playing board games, bowling, mini putt, baking cookies, or whatever we choose. I cannot wait.
54) A freshly made bed- There is something so relaxing about slipping into a bed with freshly washed linens. I am not sure I cannot explain it nor could I tell you how my body knows the difference between newly washed linens and day-old linens, but for whatever reason, I delight in the newness and crispness of a freshly made bed.
Saturday, October 30th
55) Hand Me Downs- I think every parent of a current or past child understands the appreciation for hand me downs. Especially when they are so little and seem to only wear items a few times before they grow out of them or the weather changes, it is nice to have alternative methods to help supplement your child's wardrobe besides going out and buying a whole new one yourself. We were blessed with just the items we most needed at just the right time.
56) Afternoons Out- While we, particularly our daughter and myself, may go out often- usually it is just the two of us and more than likely we are running some kind of errand with maybe just a trip to the library or park thrown in, so an afternoon trip to another family's house is quite a wonderful way to spend the day. I loved the opportunity we had to visit and relax with others while still spending some time as a family. It was enjoyable to see our daughter play with other children and experience new things. A great afternoon!
Sunday, October 31st
57) Watching as new believers proclaim their faith and are baptized- Whether I grew up with the person, met them just a few weeks ago or am only visiting the church for the first time, I love celebrating with a church as someone proclaims Christ as their savior and is baptized. There is no time more significant or monumental in a person's life, nor is there a time for greater joy and celebration.
Monday, November 1st
Daughter-Daddy Relationships
58) Drew with our daughter- As we prepared for the birth of our first child, my biggest concern was making certain that Drew had as many opportunities to spend with that child as possible. We knew he would be very busy with his military trainings, etc. and would have very limited time at home, but I was determined that we would do whatever to ensure our child knew her father. To see her with her Daddy now, I am so thankful; she is a Daddy's girl. There is no doubt about that. She cries when he says goodbye in the morning and heads out for work for the day. Although that may seem unnecessary, I am glad she has that kind of bond with Drew and I am so grateful for every bedtime story they can read together, for every dinner prayer they say together, and every laugh they have shared. It's precious and dear to me.
59) My Dad and I- I have never considered myself a Daddy's girl but my Dad has been there for me at some of the biggest and hardest times in my life. He has helped me make some of the hardest decisions and has given me the strength, courage, and support to pursue the path that has led me to where I am today. Over the years, my Dad has laid a foundation of faith which has become the bedrock for all else he has taught me. From there, he has been there to guide me, to speak on my behalf, and encourage me. He understood the debate the raged within me the months before I graduated college and helped to clear the haze. He knew what held me back from making the final choice and gave me permission to make the choice I needed to make, and because of that decision, I am happily married with a beautiful little girl.This is just one way in recent years that he has helped me and supported me and yet it had an incredible impact on my life. I know that this could not have been an easy decision for my Dad who truly loves to have all his family near to him and I am grateful that he allowed me the wings to fly and pointed me toward the faith which supports me in all my endeavors.
60) My Heavenly Father- Isn't it incredible that we, who once lived lives so contrary to the will and desire of the Lord Almighty, become His child, co-heirs with Christ, once we are saved? What an amazing turn of events! I still find it absolutely incredible and awesome that I can call the creator of this universe, the omnipotent, all-powerful, King of Kings and Lord of Lords my Father.
Tuesday, November 2nd
61) My Mother- I cannot write about my Dad without giving some time to my Mom because I am so thankful for both of them. I am not the woman I am today without the influence of both my Dad and my Mom. As with most children, I have not appreciated my Mom nearly as much as I should have and have only in recent years come to value her for all her amazing qualities. She has a strength and conviction which I hope to possess in time and her faith is unshakable. I can only pray that when my daughter is older, she can see the same in me and say likewise. I am so grateful for all the ways my Mom has supported and encouraged me through the tough times. She has listened and tried her best to help me as I have tried to get my feet under me as a new wife, mother and Army wife. This has not always been an easy job for her as I do not always process or handle things in the same manner as she does, but she has been patient with me and has always been there for me. I love her dearly!
62) Democracy- We all have our opinions about our government, but isn't that the great thing about our government? You have the right and freedom to your opinion. Today we are reminded, more than ever, about that right when we are given the right to voice our opinion through the ability to vote for elected officials. Of course many people will say that the process is flawed and I am not saying that it is perfect. I am not trying to start a debate. I am thankful that we live in a country where we have the kind of freedoms and rights that grant us the ability to voice our opinion, to get involved if we so choose.
Thursday, October 28th
51) No expectation that I'll be the 1950's stay-at-home wife- Generally speaking, I like to keep an orderly, fairly clean home. I enjoy the opportunities to try out new recipes for dinner and do not mind the laundry or errand running, but the reality is that most days when Drew walks through the door he is not greeted by a pristine wife with dinner half prepared and a picked up house. No, more than likely dinner may have been thought about but not begun, and there is probably at least one mess of toys somewhere in the house (and it may be directly in front of his feet as he steps through the doors). This fact never phases Drew nor does it cause him to question my activities during the day. Thank you. Thank you!
52) Toys picked up- Picking up after our daughter really does not take a long time. Even if the mess looks huge, it can usually be all cleared away within minutes. Of course, after picking up the same general toys and returning them to the same spots once or twice a day, every day for a couple of months, I appreciate a little break, so when I saw Drew picking up our daughter's toys tonight after we laid her down to sleep for the night, it meant so much to me. He chose to do it all on his own and I know it was not because it bothered him but because he knew it was something I would do before the night was over.
Friday, October 29th
53) Family "Date" night- This is a tradition Drew and I started back in Florida. Our daughter was quite young, we didn't know many people in town, but we wanted to be able to go out on a date. Instead of always ordering in or giving up, we modified our plans a little and made our date night a family date night and I love it. Don't get me wrong, I still love going on dates just with Drew, but I also love the special times we set aside as a family. Right now we may go out for dinner, but in the future, it will likely turn into family night- playing board games, bowling, mini putt, baking cookies, or whatever we choose. I cannot wait.
54) A freshly made bed- There is something so relaxing about slipping into a bed with freshly washed linens. I am not sure I cannot explain it nor could I tell you how my body knows the difference between newly washed linens and day-old linens, but for whatever reason, I delight in the newness and crispness of a freshly made bed.
Saturday, October 30th
55) Hand Me Downs- I think every parent of a current or past child understands the appreciation for hand me downs. Especially when they are so little and seem to only wear items a few times before they grow out of them or the weather changes, it is nice to have alternative methods to help supplement your child's wardrobe besides going out and buying a whole new one yourself. We were blessed with just the items we most needed at just the right time.
56) Afternoons Out- While we, particularly our daughter and myself, may go out often- usually it is just the two of us and more than likely we are running some kind of errand with maybe just a trip to the library or park thrown in, so an afternoon trip to another family's house is quite a wonderful way to spend the day. I loved the opportunity we had to visit and relax with others while still spending some time as a family. It was enjoyable to see our daughter play with other children and experience new things. A great afternoon!
Sunday, October 31st
57) Watching as new believers proclaim their faith and are baptized- Whether I grew up with the person, met them just a few weeks ago or am only visiting the church for the first time, I love celebrating with a church as someone proclaims Christ as their savior and is baptized. There is no time more significant or monumental in a person's life, nor is there a time for greater joy and celebration.
Monday, November 1st
Daughter-Daddy Relationships
58) Drew with our daughter- As we prepared for the birth of our first child, my biggest concern was making certain that Drew had as many opportunities to spend with that child as possible. We knew he would be very busy with his military trainings, etc. and would have very limited time at home, but I was determined that we would do whatever to ensure our child knew her father. To see her with her Daddy now, I am so thankful; she is a Daddy's girl. There is no doubt about that. She cries when he says goodbye in the morning and heads out for work for the day. Although that may seem unnecessary, I am glad she has that kind of bond with Drew and I am so grateful for every bedtime story they can read together, for every dinner prayer they say together, and every laugh they have shared. It's precious and dear to me.
59) My Dad and I- I have never considered myself a Daddy's girl but my Dad has been there for me at some of the biggest and hardest times in my life. He has helped me make some of the hardest decisions and has given me the strength, courage, and support to pursue the path that has led me to where I am today. Over the years, my Dad has laid a foundation of faith which has become the bedrock for all else he has taught me. From there, he has been there to guide me, to speak on my behalf, and encourage me. He understood the debate the raged within me the months before I graduated college and helped to clear the haze. He knew what held me back from making the final choice and gave me permission to make the choice I needed to make, and because of that decision, I am happily married with a beautiful little girl.This is just one way in recent years that he has helped me and supported me and yet it had an incredible impact on my life. I know that this could not have been an easy decision for my Dad who truly loves to have all his family near to him and I am grateful that he allowed me the wings to fly and pointed me toward the faith which supports me in all my endeavors.
60) My Heavenly Father- Isn't it incredible that we, who once lived lives so contrary to the will and desire of the Lord Almighty, become His child, co-heirs with Christ, once we are saved? What an amazing turn of events! I still find it absolutely incredible and awesome that I can call the creator of this universe, the omnipotent, all-powerful, King of Kings and Lord of Lords my Father.
Tuesday, November 2nd
61) My Mother- I cannot write about my Dad without giving some time to my Mom because I am so thankful for both of them. I am not the woman I am today without the influence of both my Dad and my Mom. As with most children, I have not appreciated my Mom nearly as much as I should have and have only in recent years come to value her for all her amazing qualities. She has a strength and conviction which I hope to possess in time and her faith is unshakable. I can only pray that when my daughter is older, she can see the same in me and say likewise. I am so grateful for all the ways my Mom has supported and encouraged me through the tough times. She has listened and tried her best to help me as I have tried to get my feet under me as a new wife, mother and Army wife. This has not always been an easy job for her as I do not always process or handle things in the same manner as she does, but she has been patient with me and has always been there for me. I love her dearly!
62) Democracy- We all have our opinions about our government, but isn't that the great thing about our government? You have the right and freedom to your opinion. Today we are reminded, more than ever, about that right when we are given the right to voice our opinion through the ability to vote for elected officials. Of course many people will say that the process is flawed and I am not saying that it is perfect. I am not trying to start a debate. I am thankful that we live in a country where we have the kind of freedoms and rights that grant us the ability to voice our opinion, to get involved if we so choose.
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